1: “forgive them, Father! they don’t know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34)

It makes sense that the first word of Jesus from the cross is a word of forgiveness. That’s the point of the cross, after all. Jesus is dying so that we might be forgiven for our sins, so that we might be reconciled to God for eternity.

But the forgiveness of God through Christ doesn’t come only to those who don’t know what they are doing when they sin. In the mercy of God, we receive his forgiveness even when we do what we know to be wrong. God chooses to wipe away our sins, not because we have some convenient excuse, and not because we have tried hard to make up for them, but because he is a God of amazing grace, with mercies that are new every morning.

As we read the words, “Father, forgive them,” may we understand that we too are forgiven through Christ. Because Christ died on the cross for us, we are cleansed from all wickedness, from every last sin. We are united with God the Father as his beloved children. We are free to approach his throne of grace with our needs and concerns. God “has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west”. What a great news!


Do we really believe God has forgiven our sins? Do we take time on a regular basis to confess our sins so that we might enjoy the freedom of forgiveness? Do we need to experience God’s forgiveness in a fresh way today?


2: “I promise you that today you will be in paradise with me.” (Luke 23:43)

As Jesus hung on the cross, he was mocked by the leaders and the soldiers. One of the criminals being crucified with him added his own measure of scorn. But the other crucified criminal sensed that Jesus was being treated unjustly. After speaking up for Jesus, he cried out, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom”.

Jesus responded to this criminal, “I assure you, today you will be with me in paradise”. Paradise was thought to be the place where righteous people went after death.

Jesus promised that the criminal would be with him in paradise.

Though we should make every effort to have right theology, and though we should live our lives each day as disciples of Jesus, in the end, our relationship with him comes down to simple trust. “Jesus, remember me,” we cry.

And Jesus, embodying the mercy of God, says to us, “You will be with me in paradise.”

We are welcome there not because we have right theology, and not because we are living rightly, but because God is merciful and we have put our trust in Jesus.

Have we staked our life on Jesus? Have we put our ultimate trust in him? Do we know that, when our time comes, we will be with him in paradise?

3: “Dear woman, here is your son.” (John 19:26)

As Jesus was dying, his mother was among those who had remained with him. Most of the male disciples had fled, with the exception of John “the disciple he loved.”

Jesus gave to John a responsibility, he had to take care of Mary.

Jesus wanted to make sure she would be in good hands after his death.

The presence of Mary at the cross adds both humanity and horror to the scene. We are reminded that Jesus was a real human being, a man who had once been a boy who had once been carried in the womb of his mother. Even as he was dying on the cross as the Saviour of the world, Jesus was also a son, a role he didn’t neglect in his last moments.

When we think of the crucifixion of Jesus from the perspective of his mother, our horror increases dramatically. The death of a child is one of the most painful of all parental experiences. To watch one’s beloved child experience the extreme torture of crucifixion must have been unimaginably terrible. We’re reminded of the prophecy of Simeon shortly after Jesus’ birth, when he said to Mary: “And a sword will pierce your very soul”.

This scene helps us not to glorify or spiritualize the crucifixion of Jesus. He was a real man, true flesh and blood, a son of a mother, dying with unbearable agony. His suffering was altogether real, and he took it on for you and for me.

What does Mary’s presence at the cross evoke in us? Why do we think was it necessary for Jesus to suffer physical pain as he died?


4: “My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?” (Mark 15:34)

As Jesus was dying on the cross, he echoed the beginning of Psalm 22:

My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?

In the words of the psalmist Jesus found a way to express the cry of his heart: Why had God abandoned him? Why did his Father turn his back on Jesus in his moment of greatest agony?

We will never fully know what Jesus was experiencing in this moment.

Was he asking this question because, in the mystery of his suffering, he didn’t know why God had abandoned him? Or was his cry not so much a question as an expression of profound agony? Or was it both?

What we do know is that Jesus experienced a separation from God. The Father abandoned him because Jesus took upon himself the penalty for our sins. In that painful moment, he experienced something far more horrible than physical pain. The beloved Son of God knew what it was like to be rejected by the Father. “God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God”.

Father abandoned the Son for our sake, for the salvation of the world.

Have we taken time to consider that Jesus was abandoned by the Father so that we might not be? What does this “word” from the cross mean to us?


5: “I am thirsty.” (John 19:28)

No doubt Jesus experienced extreme thirst while being crucified. He would have lost a substantial quantity of bodily fluid, both blood and sweat, through what he had endured even prior to crucifixion. Thus his statement, “I am thirsty” was, on the most obvious level, a request for something to drink. In response the soldiers gave Jesus “sour wine”, a cheap beverage common among lower class people in the time of Jesus.

As he suffered, Jesus embodied the pain of the people of Israel, that which had been captured in the Psalms. Jesus was suffering for the sin of Israel, even as he was taking upon himself the sin of the world.

As we reflect on Jesus’ statement, “I am thirsty,” we can keep thinking of our own thirst. It’s nothing like that of Jesus. Rather, we are thirsty for him. our souls desire for the living water that Jesus supplies.

we should rejoice in the fact that he suffered physical thirst on the cross – and so much more – so that our thirst for the water of life might be quenched.

How do we respond to Jesus’ statement “I am thirsty”? What does this statement suggest to us about Jesus? and About ourselves?


6: “It is finished!” (John 19:30)

When Jesus said “It is finished,” surely he was expressing relief that his suffering was over.

“It is finished” meant, in part, “This is finally done!” “It’s done . . . complete.” Jesus had accomplished his mission. He had announced and inaugurated the kingdom of God. He had revealed the love and grace of God. And he had embodied that love and grace by dying for the sin of the world, thus opening up the way for all to live under the reign of God.

Because Jesus finished his work of salvation, you and I don’t need to add to it. In fact, we can’t. He accomplished what we never could, taking our sin upon himself and giving us his life in return. Jesus finished that for which he had been sent, and we are the beneficiaries of his unique effort. Because of what he finished, you and I are never “finished.” We have hope for this life and for the next. We know that nothing can separate us from God’s love. One day what God has begun in us will also be finished, by his grace. Until that day, we live in the confidence of Jesus’ cry of victory: “It is finished!”

Do we live as if Jesus finished the work of salvation? To us have confidence that God will finish that which he has begun in us?


7: “Father! in your hands I place my spirit!” (Luke 23:46)

 “Father! in your hands I place my spirit.”

On an obvious level, Jesus was putting his post mortem future in the hands of his Heavenly Father. It was as if he was saying, “Whatever happens to me after I die is your responsibility, Father.”

Jesus not only entrusted his future to his Father, but also implied that he would be delivered and exonerated.

No, God would not deliver him from death by crucifixion. But beyond this horrific death lay something marvellous. “I entrust my spirit into your hands” points back to the familiar suffering of David, and forward to the resurrection

Have we put our life and, indeed, our life beyond this life, in God’s hands? How do we experience God’s salvation through Christ in our life today?


  1. Very moving Good Friday reflections – thank you so much, Aftab and readers, choir and helpers. ‘Do we have confidence that God will finish that which He has begun in us?’
    Searching questions we were left to ponder. Blessings all, this Good Friday.

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